A Relationship Tarot Reading...

(but not in the way you think)

In our couples intimacy quiz, we're using Tarot card images as a creative and symbolic way to represent different relationship dynamics, but we're not relying on traditional Tarot meanings. The cards serve as visual metaphors to reflect the unique challenges and strengths that emerge from your quiz responses. Each card, such as The Chariot, symbolizes a particular theme—like balance, determination, or progress—that aligns with the experiences couples face in their relationships. This approach helps to illustrate the results in a way that feels engaging and insightful, offering a fresh perspective on the areas of your relationship that might need attention or growth. While Tarot is often associated with mysticism, here, it’s simply a tool to provide deeper reflection and a visual framework for understanding your relationship.

The Devil's In The Details

Couples linked to The Devil card frequently experience power imbalances particularly when it comes to conflict.

These imbalances probably manifest through both overt and covert control.

One partner might dominate the relationship, either by withdrawing or with an explosive temper, while the other feels overwhelmed or resentful.

This is reflected in quiz answers such as, “My partner complains that I expect too much of them, or vice versa,” where couples often acknowledge that one person feels they are carrying the emotional weight of the relationship. These dynamics can lead to significant tension, frustration, and unresolved resentment, making it difficult for the couple to move forward together without first addressing these imbalances.

This frustration often boils over in times of conflict. Couples who choose The Devil card tend to either avoid fighting altogether, signaling an unhealthy avoidance of conflict, or escalate arguments into heated exchanges involving yelling or harsh words. Responses such as "When you have a disagreement, what happens?" result in The Devil when couples report that they "don’t fight at all!" This avoidance is not a sign of harmony but rather of suppression.

The lack of healthy conflict resolution can signal deeper power struggles where issues are never truly addressed, leaving partners feeling emotionally disconnected or resigned to their roles within the relationship. On the other hand, those who find their arguments frequently escalate into shouting matches or harsh exchanges are dealing with an explosive dynamic where emotions run unchecked, leading to further damage in the relationship.

Relationship Power and The Devil 

Control and Restriction

Control patterns in relationships represented by The Devil might manifest in different ways. For instance, some couples might notice they spend nearly all their time together, which could potentially reflect a dynamic where personal space and independence have become limited. Some couples might recognize patterns such as:

• Individual activities might sometimes create tension
• Time apart could generate anxiety or discomfort
• One partner might occasionally feel guilty about pursuing independent interests
• There might be an expectation to spend most free time together

Avoidance and Escalation

Another aspect of The Devil dynamic might appear in how couples handle difficult conversations and conflicts. Some possible patterns could include:

• There might be some tendency to avoid challenging conversations
• Disagreements could sometimes escalate more than desired
• Important issues might occasionally go unaddressed
• Communication about deeper relationship concerns might feel challenging

Remember, seeing The Devil in your results doesn't necessarily mean your relationship shows all or even most of these patterns - but it might suggest some dynamics that could benefit from attention and possibly professional support. Recognizing these patterns could be a first step toward positive change.

Areas Of Growth

Couples who were dealt with The Devil card could benefit from working on conflict resolution skills and some communication skills.