A Relationship Tarot Reading...

(but not in the way you think)

In our couples intimacy quiz, we're using Tarot card images as a creative and symbolic way to represent different relationship dynamics, but we're not relying on traditional Tarot meanings. The cards serve as visual metaphors to reflect the unique challenges and strengths that emerge from your quiz responses. Each card, such as The Chariot, symbolizes a particular theme—like balance, determination, or progress—that aligns with the experiences couples face in their relationships. This approach helps to illustrate the results in a way that feels engaging and insightful, offering a fresh perspective on the areas of your relationship that might need attention or growth. While Tarot is often associated with mysticism, here, it’s simply a tool to provide deeper reflection and a visual framework for understanding your relationship.

Damn! I Wish I Was Your Lover

Communication and Emotional Safety

Couples represented by The Lovers demonstrate a remarkable ability to maintain emotional safety in their relationship. Your quiz answers show you're "totally comfortable" expressing emotional needs and feel your partner genuinely understands your perspective during important conversations. This emotional safety extends to how you handle disagreements - you indicated that you can work through conflicts calmly, without drama or harsh words.

These patterns suggest you've created an environment where both partners feel secure enough to be vulnerable. While you reported feeling "somewhat" connected emotionally, this level of safety and understanding provides an excellent foundation for deepening your connection further.

Balanced Partnership Dynamics A defining characteristic of couples who draw The Lovers is their approach to shared decision-making. Your answers consistently show that you make decisions jointly, indicating a relationship where power is distributed equally. This balance is reflected in how you handle disagreements - rather than one partner dominating or withdrawing, you work together to find solutions calmly.

This equilibrium in your partnership suggests a deep respect for each other's perspectives and contributions. Your communication patterns show that neither partner tries to overpower the other, and both feel heard and understood during important discussions.

Lover, You Should've Come Over. 

Honeymoon Stage

During this phase, your natural comfort with emotional expression and joint decision-making sets a strong foundation. Tip: Use your existing communication strengths to establish expectations and boundaries clearly.

Equilibrium Stage

Your ability to handle disagreements calmly serves you well as the relationship stabilizes. Tip: Continue using your strong conflict resolution skills to navigate new challenges together.

Adjustment Stage

Your pattern of joint decision-making helps maintain balance during this phase. Tip: Draw on your established emotional safety to discuss any emerging concerns openly.

Reality Stage

The calm, understanding approach you take to conflicts helps you accept differences. Tip: Use your strong communication foundation to discuss changing needs and expectations.

Teamwork Stage

Your consistent pattern of working through issues calmly and making decisions together creates true partnership. Tip: Build on your emotional safety by finding new ways to deepen your connection while maintaining the balanced approach that defines your relationship.

Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment- More on H.E.A.R.T Framework for Couples.

Find out more about the HEART framework, and the five stages of a relationship in this video and discover what to look out for in each stage of the relationship in order to create happy, healthy, resilient connections

Areas Of Growth

For couples who receive The Lovers card, the primary challenge is continuing to grow in their connection. While they have a solid foundation of communication and a good handle on conflict resolution, emotional intimacy may not always be as strong as it could be.