The Relationship Archetypes Quiz: Understanding Stronger Connections

Understanding Archetypes

Archetypes are universal patterns or models that appear throughout human culture, storytelling, and psychology. They represent fundamental human experiences and behaviors that we all recognize, regardless of our cultural background.

Think of an archetype as blueprints for understanding humans and our nature - they help us make complex patterns in behavior and relationships appear more simple.

Relationship Archetypes

When we look at relationships, certain patterns emerge that are so common they become archetypal. Some couples naturally fall into the role of caretaker and receiver, others maintain care and equality, while some relationships are characterized by intense passion or conflict.

These patterns aren't just behaviors - they're deeply rooted ways of relating that can define the entire dynamic of a partnership.

Why Tarot as Relationship Symbols

Tarot cards function as powerful relationship archetypes and archetypal symbols because they capture the complex patterns of human behaviour and relationships that have existed throughout time.

These universal symbols speak to our collective knowledge of human connection, allowing us to recognize relationship dynamics that might otherwise remain hidden or difficult to explain.

The symbolic language of tarot transcends cultural and personal circumstances, tapping into deeper patterns of human interaction and emotional experience.

When couples struggle to identify or discuss challenging dynamics in their relationship, these archetypal images can create a safe environment for exploring sensitive topics. The symbols serve as a bridge between unconscious patterns and conscious awareness.

Rather than focusing on a past behavior in isolation, tarot archetypes help partners recognize how their individual patterns affect their shared reality.

This symbolic framework allows couples to explore their relationship dynamics from a healthy distance, making it easier to see both strengths and challenges without becoming overwhelmed by personal anxiety or defensiveness.

Through these universal symbols accross the world, partners can begin to understand their unique journey while recognizing they're part of a larger human experience of relationship and commitment.

What Do My Archetypes Mean and How Do They Compare To The Other Archetypes

When you take our relationship and intimacy quiz, we'll tell you the main archetype that was present in your results and you can see if it fits with you and your partner. You're welcome to explore the other archetypes by clicking around this section.

The Devil - Haunted By Ghosts Of Previous Relationships?

In the original tarot deck, the image is of a man and a woman, representing Adam and Eve, are depicted nude with chains around their necks but upon closer inspection, it's evident that the chains are loose enough to be taken off.

The Devil is illustrated as a creature that is part man, part goat, exuding a dark and powerful aura that overshadows the card.

When you see The Devil in your quiz results, it may indicate some troubling patterns regarding power, conflict, and emotional freedom in your relationship. Your responses could point to a situation where control and limitations hinder authentic connection and growth.

If The Devil appears as an archetype in your results, it might suggest that some of your answers reflect patterns that feel confining or overwhelming. Although all relationships encounter difficulties, your responses imply that you may be caught in cycles that are particularly challenging to escape.

Relationships associated with The Devil may reveal certain dynamics related to power and conflict. Couples who receive this result might find that their disagreements can sometimes escalate to a damaging level.

In some instances, arguments may involve hurtful words or shouting, while in others, couples might notice a tendency to avoid conflict altogether—perhaps claiming they never disagree, which could indicate repressed tensions rather than genuine peace.

The Chariot - Potential For A Successful Relationship

Original: A soldier is positioned in his chariot, contemplating his next move. Two sphinxes, one black and one white, are angled nearby, representing an uncertain fate. The sphinxes are not attached to the chariot, indicating that the soldier has the freedom to choose his own path.

When your quiz results show The Chariot, it might reflect an archetype of a relationship that's actively working through its power dynamics.

Although you see yourselves as friends, there could be a pattern suggesting a conscious effort toward equality, even if perfect balance hasn't yet been achieved. While these dynamics might still be evolving, they could form an important foundation for intimacy.

Some couples represented by The Chariot might find themselves navigating relationship challenges with determination and purpose. The pattern might suggest a relationship that's working toward balance, even if it hasn't yet achieved perfect synchronicity.

The Moon - An Archetype For Communication

Original: A dog and a wolf howl at the moon, issuing a warning. A fish surfaces from the water, symbolizing the energy associated with the astrological water signs: Pisces, Scorpio, and Cancer. The Moon card serves as a caution to recognize confusion and uncertainty.

When The Moon archetypes appears in your quiz results, it might signal a pattern around unhealthy emotional expression that could benefit from attention. Your answers may suggest that emotional sharing and mutual understanding might sometimes feel challenging.

Couples who align with The Moon might notice certain patterns around emotional connection. While you may maintain basic communication, there could be opportunities to bridge some gaps in emotional intimacy and mutual connection.

The appearance of The Moon in your life and results might suggest that while your relationship isn't characterized by constant conflict, there could be a pattern where discussions occasionally become heated or where emotional disconnection might need some attention.

The Empress - The Power Couple

The Empress is a glorious woman, reclining gracefully on cushions, encircled by a vibrant landscape that signifies prosperity and development. Her pregnancy represents new life and fresh starts as an archetype.

When appears in your quiz results, it may signify a successful relationship characterized by a profound emotional bond and mutual support. Your responses indicate a power couple dynamic where emotional expression can occur effortlessly between partners.

Couples resonating with The Empress may have cultivated a life where emotional intimacy thrives. Some of your answers may reflect feelings of being “very” emotionally connected or indicate that you are “completely comfortable” sharing emotional needs with one another.

However, like any relationship, even those marked by care and emotional availability may encounter times when sustaining this connection demands intentional effort.

The Tower - A Love Life That May Collapse

A bolt of lightning hits the tower, causing dark clouds and flames to erupt from the scene while two individuals tumble helplessly to the ground. The situation seems chaotic, and upon closer inspection, it's clear that the tower stands on unstable ground.

A key feature of relationships depicted by The Tower is the significant power imbalance between you both. Your responses indicate a consistently unequal dynamic in decision-making, with efforts to share responsibilities or reach a mutual middle ground, often falling short. You might be sacrificing your own needs for those of your partner, or vice versa.

The quiz results suggest that this issue goes beyond sporadic conflict; there is a recurring trend where one partner takes control while the other feels consistently burdened.

The conflicts depicted in The Tower extend beyond vague expectations; they can illustrate a fundamental flaw in how you both distribute the responsibilities within their relationship and day to day life. Depending on your score it could absolutely be perceived that your marriage is at risk or has been in the past.

If this is not accepted or there's no interest in repair, then you might determine that the risk becomes reality and the tower might fall.

The Hermit - A Person Alone In Life

The Hermit is positioned on top of a mountain, holding a glowing lantern to illuminate his path ahead. The image is peaceful but lonely, and he seems to support himself with a staff while pondering his next step. This image represents the archetype of a man or woman looking out into the world with some concern.

When The Hermit shows up in your quiz results, it could indicate a tendency towards emotional withdrawal and disconnection within your relationship. Or that one person is overly independent, physically distant or is unable to talk in ways that heal distance. Your responses may reflect a matter where sharing feelings is difficult, leading to a sense of isolation or distance for one or both of you.

The presence of The Hermit suggests that discovering methods to close emotional gaps in a relationship taking a moment to realize how aware or not you are of the emotional distance between you both.

It would be useful, of course, for both your lives to think about creating a more secure environment for vulnerability. This scenario often implies that both you and your partner could gain from exploring new ways to connect and remain engaged, especially during tough times.

The Lovers - An Archtype For Success, Pleasure and Healing?

In the rider deck, a man and woman stand naked in front of the Tree of Life and the Tree of Forbidden Fruit, representing vulnerability, and an angel appears above them.

When The Lovers shows up in your quiz results, it indicates a relationship marked by emotional security and balanced decision-making.

Your responses suggest are able to have an open discussion about most things, where both of you feel entirely at ease sharing their emotional needs and consistently grasp each other’s perspectives during significant conversations.

Couples who resonate with The Lovers exhibit a notable ability to manage conflicts effectively—you maintain calm discussions while having independent thoughts even in the face of disagreements, steering clear of harsh language or escalation.

Your answers also reflect a collaborative approach to decision-making and tackling challenges as equals.

While your relationship's foundation is robust and healthy, your responses imply there may be opportunities to enhance your emotional connection, as your lover and you are beginning to be focused on what will happen in the future - perhaps children or just growing older together as adults.